Forgive, Forget, and LEARN!

These past few months had been very hard for me. Actually it really seemed that this year had a bad start.

There were a lot of hurt, hardships, and confusion. A lot of negative thoughts, sleepless nights, and a lot of tears shed! All of which I thought would last forever..all of which I thought I could endure never..

But the Lord has been very kind to me, all these years, and up to now, He still had not let me down. He always has His way of letting me know what I need to do. And I'm glad that now, I can say that I have become a better person.

I don't really blame anyone for all the things that happened and I don't regret anything that I've done, because all these, in fact, made me realize a lot of things about life and love. :)

Being hurt is but natural. Happiness is a choice..and so is Misery!

When you're hurt, it's just alright to cry your heart out. But this should last for just a few days. It shouldn't take you away from living a happy life.

When you're hurt and you become miserable, that's a different thing! And no one else can be blamed for your misery except yourself.

Everybody deserves a second chance. It doesn't matter who's right or wrong, what matters is that you're both willing to change for the better.

No matter how bad a person might seem, no matter how much pain he may have caused you, he still deserves a second chance. Just as God has always been very forgiving to you, the more you should be forgiving to those who have hurt you.

If someone has done you wrong and asks for forgiveness and a second chance, accept his forgiveness and trust that he will never do it again.

How we deal with life is really just a matter of personal choice.

So always choose to be happy! :D No matter how other people may see it, if that is what will really make you happy, then go for it! And when times get rough, just remind yourself that no pain will come your way without a purpose.
Blaming shouldn't also be part of the scene as it will just worsen everything. Just accept and trust! Don't lose hope and have a strong faith! Let go and move on! And just as what one of my friends said...Forgive, Forget, and LEARN!

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